A Little Bit About Me
A little about me …
An established professional engineer for most of my working life since leaving school. Well thats enough of the boring stuff ha ha.
To get to the point…
I believe in living a simple and humble life, I don’t live outside of my means.. I am prudent with my financial affairs. That doesn’t mean I am not generous on the contrary. I believe in looking after my family and children and one day my spouse as they are my responsibility, No expenses will be spared as money comes and goes, but memories last forever inshallah. Life is to be enjoyed when you have the means inshallah Allah SWT will always bring baraqah for you when you are generous mashallah.
Family, and a happy home has always been important to me. Not only for their welfare needs, but more importantly their social needs. Anything from games at home ( lots of them), baking and cooking with them, watching films with them or even a playing home basketball, football, monopoly, or even the occasional tennis in the park if the weather is good. Life would be too boring if there was no fun. Whilst my children are relatively young I get to be a big kid ...err that’s my excuse 😂😂.
Memories of fun times with dad, is what I hope will carry them throughh to later life, even with the raft of dad jokes, banter and family celebrations… it’s those memories we all cherish…not sure about the dad jokes , hmm thats when they switch off 🤔
Love to cook and bake like all good dads , my children always love to help… well at least my daughter 😂results are anything from lasagna to curries, toffee making and the odd vanilla cheesecake. Hmmm the cheese cake is usually gone by lunch with empty plates in the sink with my kids around 😂
Love my DIY, but of a perfectionist to detail so prefer the job well done by me, even if it takes twice as long , so if your handy with a paint roller and a hammer then we can build a beautiful house together literally lol.
On a serious note, I have been divorced and single for almost 7 years. I don’t believe in rushing as I will wait for the right woman… wherever on this planet she may be… still searching 😅
Being a romantic guy, will love to go for walks , talk endlessly sometimes about useless facts😂, and silly dad jokes . But on a serious note , I know what it takes to make someone feel appreciated and special. So be prepared to have a life with new and lasting memories to be created.
My father raised us well with our love for Deen as well as respecting others, we are all on our own journeys to the path to Allah SWT. A path where my future spouse will walk with me for us to get there together in harmony inshallah
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What I Am Looking For
What I am looking for …
What she needs to bring to the table..
She needs to be remarkable In her own right , confident, be seriously funny and put up with my sense of humour, and bear the big kid in me especially when watching family films.
Be up for a life of adventure, as climbed Ben Nevis this year, aiming for all 3 peaks next year as well as Kilimanjaro next may inshallah. Have lots more fun adventuress still left in my bucket list lol.
If you love to read, then I will help you. You can be my editor with my creative writing projects lol… I can take your red pen marks , as long I get a cuppa with it lol. A cake will help too 😁
I live on the premise of a glass half full. I will respect her, cherish her, find out what make her heart chime. But she would also do the same for me as men like to feel appreciated as well.
She will complement me as I would for her, so that we both live together in a home full of love, laughter and of course our hearts work together as one. A beautiful home, where family and friends are always welcome.
I want my future spouse to be someone who is articulate, kind, intelligent and patient. Be the person that can challenge me to excel me in my dreams and life goals, yet be soft hearted, my soulmate and my place of solitude where we live in peace together.
She must be ambitious and driven to excel in her career and life goals. Be of the mindset of someone who knows what she wants and will excel to achieve it too, as rest assured i will support her each step of the way in reaching them as well.
If you managed to read this Magna Carta then you have done well 👏🏽
If still interested, there is more to me… but I will let you do asking. It’s a two way street getting to know someone…
Life is not about settling for 2nd best, as those who wait Allah will always give you what best for you mashallah.
Good luck in your search, if I am not what you’re looking for … then the world’s your oyster …
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